female loves a boylover
Submitted by ILMPR on January 13 2001 20:35:39
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dear christian boylover community: I am an adult (mid 30's) female mental health/human services professional who is in love with an adult male (age 36) who is a boylover (although he is unaware that I am aware of this). I have been in love with this man for more than ten years, and consider him to be an extremely moral, caring and special human being. I feel that I can never tell him that I know about his orientation because of his shame about who he is and what he feels- in fact I fear that if I ever tried to talk to him about it, he would never talk to me again, even though I still love him regardless of whatever the reality of his feelings may be. I reallly need advice about what to do........is it possible for a man who loves boys to also love an adult woman who loves him unconditionally? Or should I try to walk away for my own hope of future happiness and fulfillment? Please give me advice, I am making an assumption that I am speaking to a population of people who are accepting of who people are along with the belief that no one, particularly children, should be hurt........I HOPE YOU WILL PLEASE RESPOND!!!! |
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