"Was there not one non-dysfunctional BL in that group?" I had to smile when I read this. I smiled because I consider all boylovers as dysfunctional, including myself. I don't think God's perfect plan is to have men sexually attracted to minor boys. So to me, *outside God's perfect plan* = dysfunctional. "Maybe it didnt occur to those attending the group that there are many of us who dont want support groups, accountability circles, etc. and who feel that creating such groups for the benefit of one person is a waste of the Church's resources." I'm sure the support groups wouldn't be mandatory, so for those who wouldn't want them, they need not attend. But many, including myself, would welcome such support. Seeking support and accountability is not a sign of weakness, but of wisdom. A waste of the church's resources? I think not. That is exactly what the church is for. Dakota |