Christian Boylove Forum

Re: Ok, then how about this???


Submitted by Reason Filled on 2002-12-2 23:14:09, Monday
In reply to Ok, then how about this??? submitted by Ringo on 2002-12-2 20:10:06, Monday


Where is Satan in that?

Right smack in the middle if you held sexual feelings toward that person of the same sex. He was so clever as to convince you that it "MUST" be love. It appears he still has you confused. So confused that you REFUSE to look at the logic behind it. Man was meant for woman, nature cannot spell it out any more clearly.

You say you want a more detailed answer? There probably is one, I just don't know you, so I can't say. I can speak for many homosexuals I DO know. The VAST VAST majority of them had crappy fathers, if they had fathers at all. Most long to fill that void. Some are just easily tricked into thinking that platonic love for a fellow man is sexual attraction. Some may have a hormone imbalance.

There are tons of reasons. Just as there are tons of reasons that could explain why my step-sister is addicted to crystal meth. Can she say to God, "God, I cannot help that my body does nothing but desire this drug. Therefore why would you deny me that happiness?"

Why does she need to dwell on WHY it is she is an addict, especially if it will lead her to believing that perhaps there is nothing wrong with it, just because she cannot help it? Why not face the issue and try to stop, with God's help?

I would have to say that the years 1985-1993 were the worst of my life.

I would have to say mine were 87-95. I went from a skinny kid with tons of friends to a chubby kid with hardly any. I guess you can say, my dad leaving destroyed my self esteem. As I started getting some confidence and making friends again in highschool, WHOOPEEE I get to deal with BL feelings. I'm attracted to every boy in school who has yet to hit puberty. Oh, now does that EVER help my self esteem..........

Now, I will not say that we would be rightly treated by society if we came out with our feelings, be them BL or homosexual, but that still doesn't make them right. Society overreacts to people who have those desires. It makes it more difficult for us, but I thank GOD that BL's are outcasts. My depression and seclusion is WELL worth me never misleading a boy into sin (i.e. sexual activity). Because, while homosexual activity is with two culpable parties, BL sexual activity is a violation of trust, and much worse. Not only does my spirit fight against it, but my mind fights against it as well because it doesn't want to be an outcast from society and spend the rest of my life with Bubba in Cell block C.

If I were homosexual, I admit, I would have a VERY difficult time fighting my wordly desires and convincing myself to believe the homosexual agenda.

That is why I do not judge those like yourself. I cannot say that I would be in a different position (no pun intended) if I were in your shoes.

These desires are strong, I'll give you that. However, they should be, satan has had tens of thousands of years to practice.

There have been moments, when I have gotten quite close to a yf and my mind would tell me that only sex can bring us closer. I would pray for clarity from God, and suddenly I would start to see how it would be a terrible sin I would have perpetrated upon him. Not just the act alone, but the confusion that I would inject into his still growing mind. I would pass on my sickness to him, and frankly, I would rather die that do that to someone I love that much.

It is such a narrow ledge we must walk to evade falling into the devil's trap. I pray we all have the strength to do just that.

In Christ,
RF


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