It was not my intention to 'attack' Genghis. I simply question some of the thoughts running through his mind... I wasn't trying to be disrespectful, or to tell him not to make his own choices. I don't consider it supportive to only say that whatever people think is good by me. To me, being supportive includes questioning people's assumptions. I stand by my comment - most Christians keep secrets. Nobody expects anyone to bear their soul in its entirety. That BLs are held to a higher standard than other Christians is unfortunate. And that's not a personal attack on anyone. Peace of Christ, Bach |