Re: There's more to it...
Submitted by BLues on October 12 1999 at 00:19:50
In reply to There's more to it... Submitted by Bach on October 11 1999 at 23:03:27
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Of course we get lots of pleasure spending time with a boy, seeing that his needs are taken care of, seeing him happy, etc. But I believe its silly to think that these are anything more than our sexual nature finding other, attainable avenues. When adults are attracted to one another the ultimate expression of that "love" is sex. There IS more to it than sex but it could be that our desire for that sex is what is behind the caring, nuturing, the "I would do anything for this boy" attitude. We say that we are no different that heterosexuals in our love for boys, or homosexuals for that matter, but some have taken it a step further and suggested that boylove is actually MORE than the hetero or homosexual attractions. If we are equal than we like any other are driven by the desire to ultimatly fulfill our sexual needs. Actually, I think, the impulses are EASIER to deal with when I view them as animalistic. I love spending time doing anything with a boy, especially tending to any trivial need he may have but Im honest with myself about why I want to fulfill it. BLues |