Hey gaakz,

I think it's pretty normal for something like that to happen. I see guys close to my age that I think are good looking pretty often. I'm 18. And I have a pretty wide and young aoa, 5 y/o to 12 y/o. But it fluctuates. Anyways, like newgeorge said, he does look younger than he is.

heh... I've had plenty of those internal type conversations... or arguments.

All this made me remember how Exceptionally Forgiving I was of my YF when he'd do something stupid, selfish, or just plain wrong. He could have run me over with his skateboard going as fast as he could and I would have said it was all right.

I think we are all pretty much like that. I try to find a balance... Well, one of my yfs is a little rascal. He's always hyper, always doing something he probably shouldn't be doing. I would very much like to just let him do whatever he wants, but it's about discerning what's best for him, I guess. Not to mention that he (and probably most boys) realizes that I am more likely to let him do what he wants than other people and he tries to take advantage of it. And I don't feel like I should let him do that. I think God has placed me in his life to be a teacher and mentor (and cuddle buddy :P) to him. Would I be doing a good job if I didn't try to keep him in line sometimes?