Why hello there C3x :p I saw you posting on threads far down the page but wondered if you would start one or post on a thread that is not so far down.

I know of people who volunteer with kids who are not attracted to them. I have never heard of one who came to a BL site and talked about him as a yf who had 0% sexual attraction to his yf. So I do think it is rare or not true. Either way meh not worried about it.

I do think bigcalv's assumption of it not being healthy due to the sexual attraction is wrong. Yes fathers should be taking their sons to places and be someone they can talk to, generally be a good father. But often that is not the case and a BL can be a good substitute. Sometimes even when the father is good the parents will appreciate someone else helping with their son the saying goes "It takes a village to raise a child."

I do not think the words boylover or loved boy imply anything sexual or not.