Comfort, to have sexual thoughts is not a sin, it's part of what makes you human. Humans are very complex beings, you are what you are, do not feel guilty. I myself don't feel very noble and I bet everyone who posts here struggles with his sexual feelings. It's just a case of learning to control them, for to act on them is not in the best interests of anyone. Some boffin once called living, "the process of need reduction". Well I must say I have a great need in my life and that is to end this perpetual lonliness, that seems to vanish when I am with boys. I realise that my feelings are not just peternal, but sexual in nature as well, I wouldn't be human if they were anything else. Again it just comes down to accepting what you are, understanding what you are and making the best of a bad job. The fact that I cannot spent the rest of my life with a regular partner is something I don't think I will ever be able to cope with. God bless Dannyboy |