boylove or boylust?
Submitted by barnabas1014 on 2002-08-26 22:27:52, Monday
| Love is something that is to last forever is it not? If u where in a relationship would u want the other person to love u forever or until u reach a certain age? If we are honest with ourselves as boylovers we are attracted to a boy until a certain age and then as the attraction fades so does the love. Will we love the boy at 25? I don't mean care for him. Will the passion and desire to be with him be the same? NO it won't. Therefore it is lust we feel for the boy not love. We must understand this. As a adult put yourself in the boys shoes. You love a man for however many years. This man tells u he loves u. Then as u reach a certain age he starts to be less attentive until he finds another boy and then u see him pouring his affection out on him. You are left wondering what happen. What did i do. This is not love but lust. Love would not hurt someone like this. We are attracted to the boy and what we do is out of lust not love. Gods love is forever. You hope the person you love will love you forever. Boylove is not forever. I have struggled with this issue over and over. I cannot justify my love for a boy if i know in my heart it is only for a season. To love for a season is lust not love. To have a man/boy sexual relationship is wrong. A sexual relationship is to be special, something that two people share with each other that love each other and intend on being together to share the results of this love. A boy that has given himself to a man completly and now the man has little to do with him. A result of boylove. How does this affect a boy/teenager/man? Would we want to be the boy that now is not loved the way he was told he was? There can only be anger and frustration. Why does he not love me? I gave him everything he wanted. He said he LOVED me. This is why I do not believe this is love but lust. God can take what is meant for evil and use it for good but we must be carefull and take all precautions to avoid letting our attraction not destory what a boy thinks love is. I never want to hurt a boy this way. True love for a boy or child puts the child first. |
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