Re: I hope you can help
Submitted by Splash! on January 25 2001 22:21:25
In reply to Re: I hope you can help submitted by john doe on January 25 2001 12:19:05
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She's being very tough on you, and it's lasting a long time. I think she needs to be a little more understanding. Hopefully you can get her to check out this place and places like Open Hands. I think she needs to know that you're not some kind of monster but are a lot like many other people. Hopefully you can try to chip away at her hard-heartedness toward you. I know it's gotta be tough. When my girlfriend and I got in arguments, they'd never last long. Sometimes it got to the point where we wouldn't say more than a sentence or two for a day, but that was rare. It is so tough when there's no communication. I used to write my girlfriend letters at times like that. Letters are kind of good in a way because you're able to get it all out without interruption, and then she has to come to you if she has questions about the letter. No, I never did come out to her as a boylover. Like I said, we had talked marriage, and I was planning on spending my life with her. We were already prayer partners. I had hoped to come out to her once we were married so that I could have her prayers and support... her strength. I was looking forward to this. It is a wonderful thing when you can talk with your mate about anything and get the support you need from her. I pray that this eventually comes for you and your wife. I don't know how your wife views marriage... to some people it is a sacred vow to each other that cannot be easily broken. I pray that she sees your marriage as something that needs to be healed, and not something to be walked away from. May God bless you both and bring you closer together as He draws you both closer to Him. By the way, you said you were visiting this site from work. Please be very careful or this could cause you more trouble. If you're on a network connection (where all your computers are tied into one location or mainframe), then your Internet use can be tracked easily and there's nothing you can do about it. If you're not on a network, you can still be tracked through the information left behind by your PC as it travels the Internet. Be sure to clear your cookie file, history file, and temporary internet files under the Windows folder. You don't need any more trouble than what you already have. Take care! ~Splash* |
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