I don't think you should feel too guilty about it. Hugs and carresses shouldn't be wrong among men. It is only our society that has made it wrong. I think that is one reason some of us are bl is that with children we can show affection without feeling like we have done something wrong. Many times I am visiting with another man and crave some phisical contact but in this country we just don't do it that way. I have read that in some cultures men hold hands while in serious conversation. |