Total honesty is a sham
Submitted by Bach on 2003-03-11 07:59:57, Tuesday
In reply to Re: I'm sorry to hear this submitted by Genghis on 2003-03-11 02:26:11, Tuesday
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Honesty in relationships is a nebulous thing at best. It isn't true that we tell others everything about ourselves. Almost everyone keeps some things from some people. And so when when people feel betrayed because you didn't share your deepest secret - well, I think that isn't being fair to the secrets they keep hidden. The second reason why they do not want me to see B is that they think it would hinder my "changing". I'm trying to convert back to being "normal". "Back to normal"? When were your 'normal'? What are you trying to get back to? When did you convert to 'not normal'? How did you acheive that converstion? Our sexuality is not a lightswitch. Discovering our sexuality is a process of broadening and enriching our range of attractions, rather than simply switching between Plan A and Plan B. Peace of Christ, Bach |
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