Hmm, I hadn't heard of any commonalities among boylovers, but the lack of interest in sports probably goes along with a lack of interest (or at least a lack of participation) in social activities/relationships, especially starting in middle school when sports become a big thing. Am I overgeneralizing? Something of a revelation today... I too am attracted to boys sexually from age 12 on up to my age. But I think I may be getting old enough that it's no longer exactly up to my age. I think perhaps my attraction starts to diminish for boys older than 18 or so. It's not nearly as clear-cut as it is on the 12yo end, but there does seem to be a definite decrease in attraction to boys between 18 and my age. (I say boys because, well, anyone younger than me is a boy.) I'm not sure if this is the same as Splash, but I find that I am very much attracted to younger boys as well, 7-10yos especially, but in an entirely nonsexual way. Splash mentioned that he doesn't have sexual feelings for younger boys, but does he have other feelings? ... I think you may be on to something, asb, thanks for bringing this up. -- Derek |