Re: I hope you can help
Submitted by john doe on January 25 2001 12:19:05
In reply to Re: I hope you can help submitted by Splash! on January 24 2001 13:59:08
| Right now communication is very strainned, outside of the councilors office. That is putting it to mildly, it is hard for me to get even basic information from her. We are in the same house but like two ships passing in the night, since that is better than two ships reinacting the battle of Trafalgar, especially in front of the kids. When I ask her something, if I get more than 3 words in reply, well that is like a state of the union speach. So did you ever tell your girlfriend? You are right about the motives part. The one thing that I am very sorry for, is that in a way when I married her, on reflection, I may have been more in love with the idea of getting married, than in love with her. the idea of settling down and having a family, especially since i had no family within 700 miles, and she has a large extended family locally. The thought of having kids, and that link to immortality. To that extent, I decived her. We settled into a comfortable, but far from passionate marriage. Or sex life was sort of non existant, but we were partners in running the house and raising the kids. As for a filter on the computer, she has already forbidden me from touching the home computer, I am writting this from work. As for praying together, it would be a good idea, but I'm not sure that she is ready for that. Last week when we went to church, and we came to the point of the service where the priest said "may the peace of the lord be always with you" and everybody shakes hands, she pointedly turned away from me. |
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