I would like to pose a question and open it up for your views. From what I've read so far, it seems there are people here with opposing viewpoints on a matter that I have an opinion on, but am far from certain. Some have said that since being a boylover isn't by choice but simply what they are, that God must have made them that way. My opinion is although the special love we feel towards boys is probably from God, the sexual attraction isn't. My reasoning is that sexual contact with a minor can really hurt them and mess up their head, and I can't see God giving us something that quite often would cause harm if we were to give in to our desires. True that the same might be said of sex with a woman in the wrong circumstances, but God has created an outlet for that with marriage. I don't see any healthy outlet for the sexual side of our boylove. |
To those that believe God made us this way, I would ask what about all the people that have other things about them that don't fall into what most consider the normal range for human existence? I'm speaking of things like schitzophrenia, manic depression, retardation, bipolar disorders, obsessive compulsions, etc. And then there are the physical abnormalities that some are born with. Please don't misunderstand and think I am labeling boylove as a mental illness. I don't know what boylove is. And I'm not really trying to sway anyone's opinion here. I'm more interested in what your views are and why, because I'm still unsure about this. I don't believe God *makes* mistakes, but is it possible He *allows* them?