Posing a question

Christian Boylove Forum

Posing a question

Submitted by Dakota on January 25 2001 18:30:12

I would like to pose a question and open it up for your views. From what I've read so far, it seems there are people here with opposing viewpoints on a matter that I have an opinion on, but am far from certain. Some have said that since being a boylover isn't by choice but simply what they are, that God must have made them that way. My opinion is although the special love we feel towards boys is probably from God, the sexual attraction isn't. My reasoning is that sexual contact with a minor can really hurt them and mess up their head, and I can't see God giving us something that quite often would cause harm if we were to give in to our desires. True that the same might be said of sex with a woman in the wrong circumstances, but God has created an outlet for that with marriage. I don't see any healthy outlet for the sexual side of our boylove.

To those that believe God made us this way, I would ask what about all the people that have other things about them that don't fall into what most consider the normal range for human existence? I'm speaking of things like schitzophrenia, manic depression, retardation, bipolar disorders, obsessive compulsions, etc. And then there are the physical abnormalities that some are born with. Please don't misunderstand and think I am labeling boylove as a mental illness. I don't know what boylove is. And I'm not really trying to sway anyone's opinion here. I'm more interested in what your views are and why, because I'm still unsure about this. I don't believe God *makes* mistakes, but is it possible He *allows* them?

-Dakota

Follow ups:

Perfection vs. Imperfection - Triple Q January 26 2001 13:03:03 (0)
You can't blame God for everything... - Sprite January 26 2001 06:54:17 (0)
Abnormalities - Ford Prefect January 25 2001 22:35:58 (0)
Why are there normal people? - Once a Boy January 25 2001 21:32:46 (4)
- Re: Why are there normal people? - Gideon January 26 2001 03:54:21 (2)
  - Re: Why are there normal people? - Once a Boy January 26 2001 16:11:44 (1)
    - Re: Why are there normal people? - Gideon January 27 2001 03:50:25 (0)
- Re: Why are there normal people? - Jordan January 26 2001 00:46:46 (0)
Re: Posing a question - Piemur January 25 2001 21:20:28 (2)
- Why am I a boylover? - Splash! January 26 2001 00:26:10 (0)
- There is a shining star just above the horizon - Once a Boy January 25 2001 21:41:50 (0)
Perhaps your assumptions are off track - Jimf3 January 25 2001 20:32:09 (26)
- Re: Perhaps your assumptions are off track - Gideon January 26 2001 04:02:22 (2)
  - Chuckle - Jimf3 January 26 2001 08:59:28 (1)
    - Re: Chuckle - Gideon January 27 2001 03:52:02 (0)
- but when society says it's wrong - Splash! January 26 2001 00:55:00 (6)
  - Re: but when society says it's wrong - John Doe January 29 2001 12:49:38 (0)
  - You don't see the good? - Jimf3 January 26 2001 08:52:15 (4)
    - yes and no - Splash! January 26 2001 23:57:28 (0)
    - Re: You don't see the good? - Once a Boy January 26 2001 16:49:56 (2)
      - You didn't answer my question - Jimf3 January 26 2001 17:42:57 (1)
        
        Did you see my post about sticking to the subject? - Once a Boy January 28 2001 17:52:23 (0)
- Re: Perhaps your assumptions are off track - Jordan January 26 2001 00:54:32 (1)
  - Not talking about abuse here - Jimf3 January 26 2001 08:48:37 (0)
- The problem is trying to 'read' the heart of a boy - Once a Boy January 25 2001 22:30:27 (7)
  - Whoa, Nelly - Jimf3 January 26 2001 09:18:23 (6)
    - Re: if - John Doe January 29 2001 13:01:19 (0)
    - When is sex unpleasing to God? - Once a Boy January 26 2001 16:36:54 (4)
      - You're chasing your own tail - Jimf3 January 26 2001 17:42:01 (3)
        
        Woof...3 questions for you. - Once a Boy January 26 2001 18:28:45 (2)
        
        Can we stick to the subject? - Jimf3 January 26 2001 18:48:42 (1)
        
        Re: Can we stick to the subject? YES!!!!! - Once a Boy January 26 2001 22:17:59 (0)
- Well, - Mark January 25 2001 21:47:57 (1)
  - Nonetheless - Jimf3 January 26 2001 08:57:11 (0)
- Re: Perhaps your assumptions are off track - Dakota January 25 2001 20:45:03 (3)
  - Could it be? - Jimf3 January 25 2001 21:44:32 (2)
    - How can society not impose guilt and shame? - Once a Boy January 25 2001 22:48:23 (1)
      - I agree - Jimf3 January 26 2001 09:03:07 (0)
Re: Posing a question - Jordan January 25 2001 19:50:38 (2)
- Re: Posing a question - Dakota January 25 2001 20:35:58 (1)
  - Re: Posing a question - Jordan January 26 2001 01:08:26 (0)

Post a follow up message:

Username:		Password:
Email (optional):
Subject:

Link URL:
Link Title: